I think you described my ideal relationship. This is about communication, trust, and being open-minded.
Spending time and learning to get to know one another and having a place free of judgment.
The hardest thing is to let go of past experiences because it doesn't define the new person you are meeting.
I haven't had a good dating experience in America, however, I am trying not to generalize because maybe there is someone that I connect with and can talk too.