It takes longer for me to trust a woman, with a guy I can tell within first 10 minutes if they are trust worthy or not. Probably because we understand how to read a guy and vice versa for women to women.
I haven’t good experiences with women in dating lately because usually if a woman has been nice to me it usually follows up with her asking to pay for something (gym membership or some other random thing).
Not complaining or whining just I’m not going to trust you if you do this stuff.