It took me a long time to be okay in expressing that I am physically attracted to someone. I kind of always thought I had to hide it.

As a single male, I like to steal a glance or two. Resisting urges helps me build sexual tension, it gives me drive to go talk to a woman. However, it's not always sexual. We appreciate the effort and we think the outfit you chose, earrings, or makeup or not, or hair up or down, is really cute. One thing we don't talk about is how we want to be told the same thing. We work on our hair and other random things to look nice or fun outfits. It's not always a suit.

In my past, I remember the woman I was dating in front of me was most beautiful woman in the world. I wouldn't have traded her for a heartbeat. Other women I couldn't really physically look at. It didn't mean much, I was happy with the one woman I had. All those urges more or less disappeared.

I miss that feeling.