It's not dependability. My happiness is achieved when I have a family of my own. I know myself and what I want.

I'm okay with being like 60-70% happy in my single life. However, I'm not afraid to admit that having a woman/partner to talk/hang out with everyday and grow a family with is something I want.

I won't take your advice because I have work with and they are my friends women that are strong, know what they want (be it families, career etc) and are honest. If you think wanting that is oppression then sure yeah I don't want to go on a date with you.