Today has been a different type of day. I needed to understand things about myself before I could move forward with calling myself someones husband. One thing I realized based on some interaction where I gave it a test yesterday is reading the opposite sex body language. I realize I suck at it when it comes to dating.
Last week a female friend called me one night while I was drunk at an asian concert. Next morning, I got a text from her saying “whatever, you do you” and sent the rolling eyes. It took me a second but she was not happy and angry at me. I didn’t know exactly what to do so I called her. I talked about it with her and the friendship to me meant a lot.
Recently, I found out about rules and behaviour some women do when courting a guy. It’s a way of communitcating and playing with your partner. This took me a second to find out things that I do that can be improved on and how to communicate that effectively to a woman that I like.
I decided to kind of expand my knowledge into other realms….in an effort to get to know how to communicate and things to help me understand love. I reached out to my ex-fiance, ex-girlfriends, and female friends asking them for dinner/perhaps feedback. Not everyone response was well received but that’s fine because it’s just me coming out of the blue back into their life.
Rule 7: Don’t accept a Saturday date after WednesdayOnwards though to the friends and women that do want to be in my life. I’m going on a couple of friend dates planned a week or so in advance based on Rule 7 and this book is right so far. I should plan ahead.
