That makes a lot of sense. I wasn't used to having sex on the first date but while I date more in my later 20s/30s I have noticed that more women were expecting it because that was what maybe they were taught?

I don't know exactly. I think for the next woman I meet and take on a date I will bring it up to her. No sex for at least a month.

If it comes from my end I think it will take the pressure off of her like you said.

Thanks for the comment! Super useful advice!