That was something I battled with. Being comfortable in my own masculinity allowed me to confident when I want to be feminine.

I like Taylor Swift, singing in my room, dancing, making fragrances, reading romantic vampire novels, journalling, shopping, dressing up to go out. Which in America is more "feminine". I don't care what men think because doing these things made me happy and if they do challenge it it's where my masculinity side comes out.

As men, we need to admit to ourselves how much we love women and all the stuff they bring to the table in terms of culture and emotions. We often forget about it and emphasize our own needs.

Refusing to go down on someone because it's "gay" is a stupid comment. You do it because you love someone and want to give them pleasure.