I attended an event for singles for male and females to learn sexual intimacy.
It was an event designed to perhaps help single males and females understand each other once again and learn about our different emotions.
One of the activities they had us do was have the men wear blindfolds and the females would walk around and weave through the crowd of men without their gaze following upon them. Most often as men, it’s tough but we do look at women and when we see someone attractive pass us by we can’t help but look.
However, we don’t know what that feels like to be looked at or desired in such way. Not all the time does a woman want this attention.
The goal was for the women to whisper their inner thoughts about men into their ear with whoever they wanted, expressing their thoughts, desires and for the men to stand and listen.
I put the blindfold on and stood near the off center of the room. It felt a bit vulnerable because the women started weaving through the crowds, I didn’t know if any of them found me attractive or wanted to talk to me but to my surprise it just started unfolding. Here is what was whispered into my ear:
Woman # 1
I want to take you on a date and dress you up like a woman, paint your nails, I think you
think you would look very pretty.I admit I didn’t see that one coming.
Woman # 2
I want you to tie me up, handcuff me to the railing of the bed and fuck me
hard. I want to feel your muscles thrusting up against me. That one turned me on.
Woman # 3
I like your muscles and I want to feel comfortable and safe with your arms
wrapped around me. I rock climb so my forearms and biceps look pretty daunting even for myself in the mirror. It’s nice to know that it doesn’t come off as scary but perhaps something of safety.
Woman # 4
I want to be the only woman in your life, the only woman that you look at when
we are out together. I want to feel safe and loved.This one is nice and one thing I had to admit to myself is what I found attractive. We long to desire only one woman and it’s important we understand what we find attractive and not lie to ourselves as men because we desire a partner. Some men just go after every woman.
Woman # 5
I love your arms and I want them to hold me.She touched my arms and the top of my shoulders pressing ever so gently. I admit it’s been awhile since I felt that and it was ever so soothing. We desire physical intimacy a lot and it doesn’t always come in the form of sex.
Touching each other ever so softly.
This was an odd experience for me because for a long time I didn’t consider my attractive so it was nice to feel desired in some capacity.
I also learned a bit about what women wanted because they could be truly anonymous without any judgement for their inner thoughts or how us as males can see beyond physical attributes.
I really liked woman number 1, if she asked me that in real life I wondered if I would have said yes. In a weird way, without ever knowing who or what she looked like I was attracted to her because I could hear her thoughts.
