This term alpha needs to disappear. I had an ex-girlfriend where we were looking at the northern lights in Iceland in the dark. It was pitch black and a car drove up to us, there was no one for miles. She was scared and I was too. In that moment, my fear meant nothing. I will approach and protect.
For my woman, nothing will scare me. I think is is the core trait men are messing.
"Awareness of my emotions" and responding to it.