"Wouldn’t it at least make men insecure if a woman never desires them in a way that would make them feel like a man?"

I got a text recently where it felt like the woman wanted to be consoled and looked after because she had an ear infection. I enjoyed it because she was coming to me and wanted someone.

It wasn't "needy", she was in a place of vulnerability and me being a man I could be a place of comfort. I felt masculine.

I like doing things to make a woman smile to make life easier for her. It's something that truly makes me happy and I want to do it.